Kind


Kind

One of the kindest people I know is my wife.  She knows how to listen. She gives freely of her love. She gives support to those she loves. 

Kind people aleve the pain of others. They lighten the load of those who are suffering. They show up in your life! They let go of the need to be right. They have a understanding that sometimes  it's better to be kind than right.  

Kind people show compassion. 

When you are kind you forgive yourself and others. You give grace.  

They practice active listening.  Seeking to understand not to respond. 

Kind people seek to serve others. Share their time. 

They do what is right without recognition. Seek to Shine the spotlight on others and, not themselves. 

Kindness is Attitude of Gratitude!

Be KIND today my friends!

Hooyah!

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